“…I have been dating this man for 6 months and he proposed to me. Shortly after, he suggested that we open a joint savings account so we could start saving towards our marriage. I trusted him, and we both started contributing.

He initially added N6,000 and later N3,500, while I was consistently saving from my monthly salary. I have contributed about N420,000. Later, he convinced me to take a loan from my workplace, assuring me that we would repay it after the wedding.

I agreed, and I borrowed N1.5 million, which is now being deducted from my salary. As I am writing this, I have not been able to reach him for 4 days. His phone has been switched off.

I contacted his friend, and I was told he said he traveled to another state. I reached out to him on Facebook Messenger, and his response shocked me. He told me to forget about him and move on with my life that he is married with 2 kids and he only came here to work.

I am dev@stated. I feel l0st and I cannot even breathe properly right now. help me. Why me?…” -

A lady has sparked reactions online after sharing how her fiancé allegedly disappeared after convincing her to take a ₦1.5 million loan for their wedding, only for her to later discover that he was married with children.